Friday, March 23, 2012

9 months



My blog was due for some pictures (sorry, don't have a good one with my new hair-do yet). I decided to upload some while watching North Carolina and Harrison Barnes almost get beat. :-/ Good thing they won [in overtime], because Jesse is going to win my office's pool if the rest of his bracket is accurate. =] The guy leading the pool right now has Duke winning the championship- ha ha! :)

Anyway, Rya had her 9 month doctor appointment last week. She is now 28 3/4" long and weighs 19.04 lbs. Long and lean the doc says. She used to be in the 90th percentile for weight, but now that she is more active, she's down in the 50th percentile. Still in 90th for height, doc said. Rya had her iron level checked and we learned her iron is a tiny bit low, so we have to give her an iron drop once/day until she's a year. Other than that, she's very healthy, and doc said we've done a great job. whew =D

Rya isn't quite walking yet, but she will take steps now if you hold her hands and walk a little with her. Everyone says it won't be long. My mom said I walked at 10 months, but I just don't see Rya walking that soon, because that's only about 2 weeks away! Time will tell though.

Baby girl has been sleeping really well. When she got back from being at the farm last week with daddy, she was off a little overnight for a night or two, but nothing too bad, and then she got right back to sleeping 8pm-6:50/7am. I love it, and am SO happy! :) FINALLY! She still randomly may wake up but we haven't had to go to her, and she's woken up at 6 when my alarm goes off, we give her the pacifier and she's back asleep until 7. There's another benefit of working in Ankeny now- more sleep. I've noticed Rya getting hungrier earlier and tired earlier at night now too. Tonight I fed her about 6, which is about 15-30 mins earlier than usual, and then we went on a 35 minute walk at 6:35. She was asleep by the time we got home. I wasn't sure she'd go to bed that early so I let her play a little in the living room until about 7:20 and then she didn't seem interested so I took her up to her room. She drank some of another bottle, I read her a short book (she barely sits still long enough to read to her, even right before bed), and then turned the light off and rocked her a little. I put her down in her crib at 7:40 so about 20 mins. earlier than when she's been going to bed. It's still a little light out, so I think she wasn't quite ready for bed, but she just played for about 10 mins and then she was out. It's so nice to finally be able to put her down and she go to sleep all by herself. It's also so nice to finally have some time to myself (and to spend with Jesse). I remember thinking when Rya was an infant that it seemed I'd never have time to watch tv or workout again. I'm glad that's no longer the case- Monday night I watched 5 tv shows after Rya went to bed (thanks to DVR)! :)

In other news- we traded Jesse's Monte Carlo in and bought a Chevy Traverse!

Out with the old... In with the new...


Jesse was pretty sad to say goodbye to the first car he bought on his own, and has had since 2004, but I think he wanted the Traverse almost as bad as me. ;) It was quite the night last Thurs when we bought it. We didn't decide we were going to buy it until 8pm (after test driving a couple that afternoon, and Jesse spending all day negotiating). We gave Rya a bath quick, got her ready for bed and then headed down the street to the dealership. We didn't pull out in my new car until 9:45, so it was a late night, but a good one. =] I love it. I don't like seeing the gas gauge go down faster than the Monte ever did, but since I don't drive nearly as much as I used to, I can still go over a week without having to fill up, so at the end of the day, I'm ok with it. ;)

Something else new to me is the year 3-0. ;) It was just another day to me (Jesse was teaching Driver's Ed Monday night so we didn't do anything special, which was fine, since I got a Traverse!
We went to dinner with my parents last Friday night for my birthday.), but it is kind of weird to me to think I'm 30. 30 used to seem so old to me, and now, I think 30 is the new 21. =] I definitely don't feel old, and hope I always say that!

As I think I may have mentioned in a previous recent post- life is good. Really good. So good, that I'm a little nervous it's too good. We refinanced and are saving a couple hundred dollars a month. Then we got an escrow refund from our previous mortgager and it will pretty much pay for the ne
w window we had to put in Rya's room b/c the original was a cheap one that leaked and rotted out the wood under the siding, in addition to dripped through the ceiling of our front room. :-( Then, we learned we are getting a good size tax refund, which we were not expecting b/c I rolled a chunk of my traditional ira to a roth one so we thought that would wash any refund we had coming (I wonder how much a refund we would have had if we hadn't done that!). I guess having a baby really does help, a lot.

But happiness isn
't all about money, and I know that... I'm happy to get to spend quality time with Jesse and Rya, and to be able to look back to when I was afraid how my life had changed and would never be the same, and I just couldn't seem to imagine life being so nice and easy again, and to see now that I'll never have to go through that time again! Next baby I'll have an idea of how it all turns out as the baby gets older. And that's such a good thought to me. I'm excited to play with Rya outside soon, and to go to the park to swing, and then to Okoboji in June. I am reminded every single day how much I love my baby girl. I never knew I could love someone SO much, and it's a great feeling!



March Madness isn't just about basketball this year- the weather has been somewhat crazy, with 80 degree temperatures in the middle of March. :) Enjoy!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Latest

Jesse is on spring break this week so he decided to go to his parents' to help on the farm the last two days; what better weather could he ask for?! His mom is retired so she said she'd love to watch Rya, so mommy got some r&r last night, this morning, and tonight! Last night I went to my nephew Caden's school music concert. The kindergarten class sang first, then the first grade, finally Caden and the second graders (it only took a half hour, but it was during the Iowa NIT game! At least we got to still watch the second half and see Iowa dominate Dayton for their first post-season win in 9 years! =]) The concert was pretty cute- the kindergarten class did The Little Red Hen, the first graders did The Parable of the Rich Man, and the second graders did The Parable of the Builder (Caden attends Holy Trinity Catholic Church school now; he's officially a maroon-in-the-making, eck!) Anyway, after spending time at my parents' afterward, I got home around 9:30 and still wanted to get on the elliptical. Since I was sure I wouldn't have to wake up in the middle of the night with Rya gone, I decided to go ahead and get on the elliptical that late. It was actually relaxing. [I'm really trying to get back into shape/working out more like I used to, so Sunday Jesse and I started Jillian Michaels again. Boy was I sore the last couple of days!] But, as my friends know, I'm not much of a late-to-bed person, so finally getting to bed at 11:00 was late for me! ;) However, I did get to sleep in until 7 this morning! It was GREAT! I got to work early for once (really helps when I only live a minute away). ;)

Speaking of work...I got some flack for not mentioning my job in my last post, so I'd like to go on the record and say, I do like my not-so-much-new-anymore job. =] It's going well. I think it's a great job for me because I can feel very accomplished at the end of the day, and even work ahead so much so that I can be waiting until something comes across my desk. I've only had one CrAzY busy day, that did actually really have me concerned about leaving my previous job, but now that I know those kind of days don't happen all the time, I can handle them when they do happen. I mean, this day I didn't have time to eat, worked 9 hours straight and STILL couldn't physically get everything done that was my job to get done. Thankfully, I work with great people that helped me out. I enjoy the people I work for/with, the small office atmosphere (smaller than anywhere I've worked before), and, have I mentioned how close to work, and Rya, that I am?! :) Today for lunch, I went shopping at Target! It's great! :)

About my job- anyone thinking about refinancing should do so, and do it with Valley Bank in Ankeny. Then I can close your loan for you. =] I have the contact info for the person to refi with, so let me know if you are interested. Jesse and I just refinanced and got a 30 year for 4%. I've seen rates even lower than that. With Valley Bank you can get set up with a payment schedule to make bi-weekly payments, and we're going to shave 7-9 years (at least) off our mortgage, saving us thousands of dollars in interest. It's really amazing to see the savings on paper, so I totally suggest you refinance with Valley Bank in Ankeny. ;)

Anyway, back to my r&r time- tonight I went on a run. It was beautiful out, even hot when running. And I loved it. Perfect temp to run in a t-shirt and shorts. Listened to my iPod for the first time in I don't know how long. I think the last time I've ran outside was when I was on maternity leave in July or August! So it's been a while, and felt great to be back! I just hope I can keep up with it. After my run, I went to the salon and got my hair cut...I mean chopped off! I think it's the shortest I've ever had it. I really like it, and think I'll love it when it won't take me very long to get ready. I'm a little nervous about my natural curl/wave, but I'm hoping it'll be easy to tame. No pictures right now, but I'll try to get one soon. Jesse isn't home yet, so he hasn't seen it, and can't be my photographer. =] I think he'll like it- as he put it "I proposed to you with really short hair." haha If you remember [that long ago ;)], I had no idea he was going to propose so I cut all my hair off and a couple weeks later, he proposed, and I remember thinking, "crap, now I don't have long hair for our wedding!" :) So, yeah, I have a new do that I'm excited about...

...a new do for a new me- turning the big 3-0 this month, on Monday actually- yikes! On that note, I think I'll head to bed now and get my beauty rest! =P
Happy St. Patrick's Day! And happy Spring!

P.S. Sorry no pictures. I'll try to get some posted soon. Rya is 9 months old and has her 9 month check up tomorrow, so I'll have a "Rya update" for you soon. =]

Sunday, March 4, 2012

I love...

Driving to the farm this weekend I heard a guy on the radio say the things he loves, and it inspired me to blog about everything I love.

I love my daughter, more than I could have ever imagined. She is the cutest thing in the world to me, even though she is the most squirmy, stubborn, silly baby girl I know! :) I love her babbling, and how she always watches me. I love watching her in the water during bath time, and I love watching her discover new things. I love her smile when I come in the room and say hi to her, and her smile just before she does something she knows mommy said no to! :) I love Rya so much, I can’t imagine sharing my time and love with another child some day.

I love my husband, more today than ever before. He’s a very patient, caring and thoughtful husband, and a wonderful daddy. He’s an amazing man and teacher that is very dedicated to his students’ health, as well as his and his family’s health. [Jesse has been a bit concerned about my heart because I’ve been so tired at night. Since I have heart disease in my family, he worries about mine.]

I love my parents and siblings. I’m so thankful to live so close to them, and thankful for their support and help with Rya. They are very excited to have a baby girl in the family, and I’m very excited for her to grow up with them in her life.

I love my parents-in law & siblings-in law. My parents-in law are two of the most compassionate, christian, conservative, loving people I know. They are also very excited to finally have a granddaughter, and I’m excited to have them in Rya’s life as well. And, being the oldest in my family, I look up to my older brothers and sister-in laws, and enjoy shopping and working on the farm with them. :)


I love my extended family, and wish I got to see them more often.

I love my friends- from Simpson, Ames, and everywhere in between.

I love Simpson College, and all the memories made there.

I love men’s college basketball. More specifically, I love March Madness on CBS.

I love the Iowa Hawkeyes.

I love college football. More specifically, I love college football on Saturdays [and Brent Musburger and Kirk Herbstreit].

I love softball and pitching. I love giving pitching lessons, and seeing my student grow. I love when she all of a sudden gets it and you can see it in the smoothness of her pitch.

I love playing basketball, and really wish I was still in shape like I was when I played in college! :)

I love skinny caramel lattes from Starbucks. I love Mt. Dew. I love chocolate, cookies & candy, oh and Coach. ;) I love Taco Johns and Arby’s. I love Okoboji and Okoboji Bar & Grill. I love country, pop & christian music; I love upbeat music I can sing along to, like Taylor Swift songs. :)

All in all, I LOVE MY LIFE!